Your speed doesn’t matter. Forward is forward. Consistency is the key, no matter how small the increments. Habits will be formed, and that can last a lifetime.
Category: Assertiveness
Disposed to or characterized by bold or confident assertion.
Deepest Thoughts

real talk…
its all about
expanding perception
raising our level of awareness
raising our level of consciousness
changing the way we live and love
love like it’s the only thing you know
at the end of the day
all this means nothing
this page
where you’re sitting
your degree
your job
your house
your car
all the money in the world
none of it matters
except love and human connection
relationships you have with people
who you love
and how deeply you love them
how you touch the lives of people around you
and how much you enriched their lives
family, friends, strangers,
quality of connection
connection is why we’re all here
it’s how we’re wired
it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives
The Starfish Story
it just takes one person…

A young girl was walking along a beach upon which thousands of starfish had been washed up during a terrible storm. When she came to each starfish, she would pick it up, and throw it back into the ocean. People watched her with amusement.
She had been doing this for some time when a man approached her and said, “Little girl, why are you doing this? Look at this beach! You can’t save all these starfish. You can’t begin to make a difference!”
The girl seemed crushed, suddenly deflated. But after a few moments, she bent down, picked up another starfish, and hurled it as far as she could into the ocean. Then she looked up at the man and replied, “Well, I made a difference to that one!”
The old man looked at the girl inquisitively and thought about what she had done and said. Inspired, he joined the little girl in throwing starfish back into the sea. Soon others joined, and all the starfish were saved.
— Adapted from The Star Thrower
Test post all categories- Will update periodically.
Testing categories, will add content later. 🙂 for now, here Is a photo of my mother & I on Thanksgiving 2017 🙂
The main categories currently being used are: Xanga old posts, Facebook, Vulnerability, Brene Brown, TED Talks, Instagram, Deep Thoughts, Bravery, and Belonging(last 3 not so much yet).
On the HOMEPAGE at the top there are navigation menus that contain content: Life(9 items), Thoughts(9 items), Quotes, Blog, Brene Brown, and TED Talks.(I cant link these here, they are categories)
I am putting my thoughts on 1500 statements under the ‘Life’ tab. This will take a while so check back periodically. 🙂
On the right sidebar of the website, you will find RECENT POSTS & POST ARCHIVES BY DATE.
As I get time, I will go through all 500+ current posts and edit the categories to create easier access to specific posts. Most of these are older journal entries, and more valuable Facebook posts/pictures over the years.
I also will be going down the list of each and every single category (234+) writing notes on each topic! DETERMINED!!! 🙂
Deepest Thoughts & The Woman Of My Dreams hit my heart the heaviest. Just sayin’
